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Intro to Personal Power Series (an 8-Part series):10 Signs You Are Giving Away Your Personal Power and How to Take It Back!

Writer: Cheryl NovakCheryl Novak

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Part 1: What is Personal Power?

Personal power is the capacity or ability to direct or influence the behavior of others and the course of events in your life.

Alternatively, personal power is also about not allowing others to direct or influence YOUR behavior, especially in negative ways.


Understanding Personal Power

Personal power manifests in two primary ways: internally and externally.

1. Internal Personal Power

Internal personal power is rooted in our thoughts, emotions, and feelings, as well as our ability to regulate them in a healthy way—often referred to as emotional intelligence.

  • Thoughts are energy, they are real, and they hold power!

  • When we feel powerful, we tend to be optimistic.

  • When we feel powerless, we tend to be pessimistic.


2. External Personal Power

External personal power is expressed through our voice, body language, and ability to influence or persuade others.

  • How you speak and carry yourself can significantly impact how others perceive you.

  • Confident body language and a strong voice reinforce a sense of control and authority.



The Consequences of Lacking Personal Power

When personal power is diminished or given away, it often results in:

  1. Negativity

  2. Helplessness

  3. Hopelessness

  4. Fear

  5. Feeling stuck

  6. Inability to take action.


Understanding the nature of personal power is the first step toward reclaiming it.


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Next Up:

Be sure to read Part II: How Do We Get Power? (This is an 8-Part Series)

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